Rav Kook (38) Hanging Out With Hashem : Why Mitzos Feel like a Burden

Rabbi Shaya Sussman, LCSW

Rav Kook (38) Hanging Out With Hashem : Why Mitzos Feel like a Burden

Rabbi Shaya Sussman, LCSW

January 29, 2026 · 00:36:06

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Are you serving Hashem because you have to, or because you want to? In today’s class, we explore the profound transition from a modality of "conquering" and "forcing" ourselves to do Mitzvos, to a state of inner alignment. Just like in a healthy marriage, where we spend time with our spouse not out of a sense of duty, but out of a genuine desire to "hang out," our relationship with the Divine should be fueled by love and connection. Key Topics Covered: Survival Mode vs. Thriving: Why the "I have to" mindset is a symptom of survival mode, and how to reclaim your "want" by aligning with your deepest values. Self-Worth & Service: Understanding that you show up for Hashem because you—and the light you bring to the world—are worth it. Lessons from the Greats: We dive into powerful stories from the Arizal and the Rebbe Rayatz during his time in prison to see what true devotion looks like under pressure. Rav Kook’s Vision: Why this restoration of "Serving with Love" is intrinsically tied to the Land of Israel and the spiritual healing of our generation. The goal is simple: To stop "doing" Judaism and start "living" in a relationship with Hashem.