
February 18, 2026 · 2:55
Can a Camp Withhold Payment from a Worker If His Father Owes Them Money?Rav Baruch FriedQuestion: A bochur spent a summer working in a camp. At the end of the summer, he goes over to the director and asks for his pay. The director informs the boy that his father still owes the camp money, so he is withholding his paycheck to cover the balance, and he should feel free to ask his father to pay him directly. Can the camp do that?Answer: First of all, it is definitely not a good way to be mechanech.The camp’s justification may be based on Shibudah d’Rebbi Nosson. The director could be saying we owe you money and your father owes us money, so you can get your payment from him. That is clearly wrong. Shibudah d’Rebbi Nosson means that if someone owes you money and that person doesn’t have money to pay, the creditor can go to a person who owes the debtor money to collect from him instead. It does not mean that a debtor who does have money to pay can tell his creditor that he isn’t going to pay him because someone else owes him money and he should go collect from that person instead. If the camp’s argument is that the son’s wages actually belong to his father, that might be a better claim. There is a big machlokes amongst the Rishonim regarding whether a father has the right to the wages of his adult child who are being supported by him. The Rema rules that he does. Accordingly, the camp may claim that since the son’s wages really belong to his father, and his father owes the camp mo